Family of Losers
This ran pretty long. If you just want to know how things turned out, just jump to the results.
The Problem
For awhile now I’ve realized that our family has had a weight problem. Not just me, but my more importantly, my kids. It was getting to the point that even friends and extended family members would gently suggest that something needed to be done. Especially as the habits we form in our youth tend to be those that carry forward with us for the rest of our lives. The trouble was, I wasn’t exactly sure how to approach it. My sister struggled with weight when she was younger and I don’t think the approach my parents took was an especially helpful one. I wanted to come up with a plan that was took more of a big carrot approach as opposed to a big stick. I also wanted something that was designed to demonstrate how to plan and succeed with a long term goal so that they might apply the things that they learned to other goals later on. I procrastinated for some time until driving into work one day I had an idea.
The Solution
The idea was a contest modeled after The Biggest Loser. Although I’ve not actually seen the show, I have a general idea how it works. I decided on a contest to see who could lose the most weight over a period of 16 weeks. At the end of that 16 week period the winner would receive a generous cash prize. It was a pretty big prize actually. I wanted it to be enough to really get my kids attention. In addition, the 2nd place finisher would receive a prize worth about half as much as 1st place. 3rd half as much as 2nd and 4th would get some amount. The only condition being you had to have actually lost weight. I wanted to make sure that no one ever felt like they were out of it just because they weren’t in 1st place.
However, having been a kid once, I realized that 16 weeks is a really really long time and I was worried that the kids might lose interest pretty quickly. So, I broke the contest down into four four week periods. At the end of four week period the person would had lost the most weight so far overall would get a prize and the person who had lost the most weight for that four week period would get a prize. I later added one modification to the contest as my wife and I began pulling away; that is, whichever of the kids lost more during a four week period got a smaller prize for that period.
Lastly, the contest would not be judged based on absolute weight loss, rather as a percentage of weight lost. This way a heavier person (me) wouldn’t have an unfair advantage over anyone else.
The Process
Step 1: Awareness
I feel that one of the biggest keys to weight management is simply awareness. It’s pretty easy to ignore changes in weight. For me anyway. I had an idea how much I weighed and didn’t much like it, but then again I simply didn’t pay that much attention to it. I think that went for all of us. Several years back I lost a bit of weight and all I really did was to raise my awareness. So, the first thing I did was buy an attractive digital scale. While we have an old analog scale, it was inconveniently located at the bottom of a closet somewhere, and I wanted something that would be prominently located (so it had to look nice) and have a high degree of accuracy. Once I got the scale I actually placed it near where the dining room transitions to the kitchen. There was some controversy, but in addition to wanting a place we could all gather for weekly weigh-ins, I hoped that its presence would just raise awareness especially around mealtimes.